Monday, November 16, 2009

To give him a chance or not to? When he is hot and cold.

Does that sound familiar to anyone else?  So there is this guy who met me in the summer and went on and on about how great I was.  He seemed to really like me. Then he seemed to get all wrapped up in his life and kind of faded away.   I had other things going on too. 

So recently he looked me up again to talk to me. He asked me out for coffee and I finally went out with him.  He was all hot after me.  That was like three weeks ago. We talked on the phone a few times and through IM/email dailly, but we haven't seen each other--I know he is a student and single dad, but really he doesn't have time to get together for a quick call? 

We were supposed to get together last Friday night...he was supposed to call me.  I text him as I was going into a class I was teaching and then nothing.  I even called him because I got out later than I intended.  No return call.  Didn't hear from him all weekend.

So I wrote him a mail today and told him that I expect respect and truly felt blown off.  I said I didn't have room for disrespect in my life.  He did respond to my email with a "reason" for him to have not called me back...I don't buy it though...how could you not send a simple email or leave a simple text or phone message?  I mean the plan to get together was Friday...it is Monday and truly I believe he only responded because of the email.  Do you ladies agree? 

1 comment:

  1. I agree. I just went through something similar myself. Something better came along, not necessarily another woman, so don't beat yourself up! But better plans came along. And you are correct, he does not have respect for you, as my guy did not have respect for me, either!!! Which is why instead of trying to figure these guys out...we just move on. They obviously don't like us, so why bother?

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