Thursday, October 29, 2009
Can someone interpret this, please?
Ok, so I've been chatting with an old school chum on Facebook....maybe once a week we'd pass an email back to each other. Then out of the blue he asked me to dinner, I didn't expect it, but I said yes. He had already sent his phone number a few emails back, so I retrieved it and called him to set the date. We arranged the date and area, he told me to pick the place. Two days later I called him back with my suggestions, and he was ok with it, and he asked me to email him the directions which I did. We set a meeting time, chatted for about 20 minutes on the phone, and he said he'd call me before then anyway. Two days after that conversation...he EMAILS me to CANCEL the date. Doesn't call, emails. He wrote that he has his nephew's bday party that day. Now, to me, that sounds like BS. If he really did have his nephew's bday party, wouldn't he have CALLED to cancel? I would think that it's easier to lie in an email than on the phone....comments, please. BTW, I am disappointed that he cancelled, I was looking forward to our date!
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WoW! That stinks but look at it this way...things happen for a reason. We automatically think it is because of something we did...or didn't do but that is not always the case. Maybe he really did have a B-day party...maybe he didn't and he was just afraid for whatever reason. If he was afraid that is not your issue...it is his; and do you want a person like that anyway? I hear ya, though. I always beat myself up when things don't go my way. It's just our nature to assume the problem is with us...but it isn't. Someone better will come along. You just wait and see.
ReplyDeleteBelieve me Mary, I have been there myself, but the thing is that it is not about you!!!! IT IS NEVER ABOUT YOU!! Why it happens is the mystery and the truth is I am not sure they even know why they do it. Could it be they don't feel good enough? The reason doesn't matter we tend to get caught up in the whys and how come's that we forget to realize it is their stuff.
ReplyDeleteIf it is any consolation, I do believe you will hear from him. I think you should let it go for now and let him pick a date to get together if you so choose to allow a date again with him.
Just as a follow up, I never heard from him again!!!
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