So I am sitting home today stuck because my car broke down for the second time in three days. There was one day when it didn't break down because it was being worked on. So I get an instant message from this guy that I went out with back in June.
He was going back and forth with me in instant message...I played along and chatted because I had the time and quite frankly I was so frustrated with other things going on that I didn't want to work. I guess you could say I wasted my time...but hey I didn't really if I had fun, right?
Well, he kind of vanished from the scene this summer. I told him that I wanted someone who would have time for me. He apologized that he wasn't quite himself this summer and really thinks of me often. He wanted to know why I didn't respond to his phone call from a few weeks back. He also wanted me to know he was still interested and wanted to know if I would be interested in going out.
He said being with me relaxed him and he felt like he was transported from another place and another time. I am so glad that these guys feel this way, but seriously; how come they feel this way and only a very few make me feel that way?
They all seem to tell me they love me or really, really like me...then disappear...then they come back... One ex asked me, "why is he calling you?"
I laughed and replied, "I don't know. You all come back!"
What does that mean?? Am I really that incredible? Well, I'd like to believe I am. And as time goes on, I do believe I am!
Now the real question is how do I get them to stay and not disappear, get scared or make the decision to stay and fight for what they want.
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According to Women are from Venus, Men are from Mars, men ALWAYS come back. Think of people as elastic bands. They go away and can only stretch so far. Eventually they will "spring back." You just have to give them the space they need. If you smother them then it will take longer for them to "spring back." So the less you force things the quicker it will take for them to come around again.
ReplyDeleteugh, you're not kidding about "they always come back." Does he think I'm a push over and it's ok to leave whenever he wants and then just come back whenever he wants? Yes, I took him back when he came back, and then he vanished again. And now he's back a third time, but this time I'm not interested. I should have learned the first time. :-( Men do not change.
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